3. They should know everything including what I'm waiting to hear.
Well, that would be nice. But just because you are waiting for a spirit to say an exact phrase or tell you the exact gift you got from them on your last birthday together doesn’t mean that’s what is going to come through.
In fact, when they come through, they are going to share what they feel is most important and what they feel is best for you. Sometimes it’s just to let you know they are around. Other times they have memories or want to acknowledge others who are still alive or are in spirit. Maybe they will give you a message and sometimes they just want to say hi and reassure you that they are fine.
It’s better to have an open-mind and listen to what comes through without trying to control the session or be judgemental. If you have questions for them, you are welcome to ask. They may have lots to say or they may say very little. But you can always ask!